13 okt 2008

Voortgezet onderwijs: fellatio

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Blow jobs are one way to give pleasure to a man. .. Lees meer

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David zei

Blow jobs are one way to give pleasure to a man. Fellatio is the classy way to describe slobbering on a knob… but we aren't classy here. So we'll go ahead and be a bit more blunt and graphic with terminology. And if I don't educate you at all then hopefully my kinky description will just turn you on.

A blow job can be a part of foreplay, or it may even be a replacement for intercourse for a variety of reasons. Giving a blow job is about GIVING pleasure, not receiving it… but it can be extremely pleasurable for YOU to see how much you have turn your man on!

As with all sex acts, communication are always key to success. Whether you do it before or after just be sure to do it. Talking with a dick in your mouth is pretty much impossible, so save the communication for another time.

The basic procedure for a good blow job is to start off slow, like a tease. Anticipation is half the fun. Kissing and licking a cock should be savored, and if you care at all about what you are doing then you'll love the excitement it brings. Gentle licking along the underside of the cock is sure to get him rock hard.

Men are visual creatures; nothing may excite him more than making eye contact with him during a blow job. Let him WATCH you do it. Put on a show while you do it. Pretend you are in a porn movie. He'll absolutely love seeing his tally whacker rubbed on your pouty mouth, against your cheek, and seeing it dip deep in your mouth. Your position for the visual part obviously needs to be simplistic… but you can always change the situation once you've got his head leaning back and his eyes closed. You want his eyes closed… more on that later.

Beware of teeth! Never bite unless you've been asked to! The cock is a sensitive magic wand and you don't want to ruin the mood. Gentle light grazing of the teeth is welcomed - it reminds him of where his rod is at… in your hot wet mouth!

Move his Wang into your mouth with a fucking motion - in and out. Start off with gentle sucking. Don't suck like it's a straw please. Hollow out your cheeks a little but don't get crazy. Sucking a cock is not all about actually sucking. It's about technique, change, design, and so on. Vary the speed, slow then fast, then slow again. Drag it out sweetheart - you are giving pleasure after all.

Mix it up a little. Don't let your jaw go sore, toss in a little "toss off" too. Use your hands to alternate some stroking and sucking. And let's not forget that nut sack people! It too needs groped and fondled. Some guy may enjoy some anal play too, others may not. You can add other things into the mix too… such as some sex toys or flavored lubricants. Get creative.

Ok his eyes are closed and he is enjoying everything that you've been doing to him! Now is time for you to pay visual attention to those plums. Keep your eyes focused on his balls because they will tell you the story of his orgasm. The closer he gets to orgasm the tighter his balls are going to get.

Pay attention to the sensations YOU are feeling too. That dick will swell up more in your mouth. The veins will get more pronounced and the skin gets tighter. You may even feel it twitch or throb a little too as he becomes engorged. Duh… common sense but it means the explosion is near.

Deep throating is another technique used during a blow job. It's exactly what the name imply - you take his skin flute as deep into the back of your throat as humanly possible. Positioning is important since you need to have your throat at the same angle as the cock to even begin. You also need to mentally suppress your gag reflex. Thrusting during this technique is not encouraged, it can cause some rather yucky circumstanced or discomfort. Pacing should actually be slow but steady.

The receiver of the blow job will be a happy camper for you to swallow his cum. You may have other feelings about it. You should only do it if you want to, and know you will enjoy it. If you don't want to swallow - you can still let him cum in your mouth and spit. Try not to run to the bathroom and spit in the sink or spit into a tissue as if you are disgusted. It can be a "put off" to your partner. Spit it in a sexy playful way… perhaps into your hand and then rub it on your body etc. Or let it drip off your face for that nasty visual effect that will get him hard again! Even if you don't care for the taste of cum, you should never make it obvious to your partner.

Obviously I'll mention safe sex too. All sex including blow jobs should be done with a condom unless you are with a partner that you know is "clean" from disease. You can find a variety of flavored condoms specifically designed for oral sex… but stay away from the general lubricated ones since they taste rather icky. You can also use a regular un-lubricated condom and wash it with some soap and water to take away the rubbery taste.

And how does it all end? Well it's not with the orgasmic explosion. Now way Jose you should be still kissing and licking at the drippy dick for a short spell. It's all about loving what you do after all. But be careful - that cock may be super sensitive now. You'll know you gave a good blow job when your man is smiling the rest of the day.